They've already seen you at. You're all too familiar with their flaws, and you can't get over them.
As you should know by now we were best friends before we got together and now we have our wedding planned. we thought it'd be interesting to put together a. What are the pros and cons of dating a best friend or someone you've known for a long time? Stop hovering to collapse Click to collapse Pros: being with someone who was a friend for a long time everything felt comfortable, with very few conflicts Cons: it wasn't as passionate as other relationships, which caused us to take each other for granted. In a long relationship the passion may dwindle anyway, and some changes we just have to accept.
It's because of this that dating your best friend is such a risk. While dating and allowing yourself to be vulnerable with someone else is always a risk, when it's your best friend you have more to lose, far more is at a stake than just the romantic relationship.
You're basically putting all your bets on the table when you date your pro and cons dating your best friend friend and when you do that, it's hard to walk away with everything you started out with when you walked into the room in the first place; it's one hell of a gamble. That's also why friends with benefits rarely go back to being just friends. You Could Lose Your Best Friend Forever Andrew Zaeh for Bustle If you've ever broken up with a friendyou know it's just as painful — if not more so — than breaking up with a partner.
Now think about losing your partner and you best friend forever because you the two of you decided to give a relationship a try. No matter what your physical chemistry might be sayingit's important to step outside the scenario and see it clearly. Once you sleep with your best friend, you're heading down a road with no U-turn. With our best friends, we tend to make allowances for them and let them get away with things that, no way in hell, we'd let others get away with when it comes to dating us.